Love Marriage Vs Arrange Marriage

Hi, this has been a question of debate for ages now and one can talk on this for years to come .

I personally believe that arrange maariage is a simple plain vanilla "Lucky draw".
Thinking why do I say so? That's because you don't know the guy whom you gonna marry much instead his family , it's like you got to trust on what people say and you can know the utlimate truth only once you are married to that guy/girl. So if you are lucky you may get a very nice life partner and if not then you may end up spending the rest of life like a compromise.

Talking of love marriage, in most cases you know the person whom you are marrying and many more things about him.You consciously at your will take a decision to spend your life with him/her . Therer are situations where even love marriages don't work but that's a completely different ball game.After all there are exceptions everywhere.It's atleaast a fair game and not a blind man's bluff .

Marriages are a ride of events which somebody organises, and someones acting and audiences i.e our guests are the ones really enjoying. Loading the stomach with mithais and so many cusiines and cocktails, almost a week long celebrations , family memebers taking up every responsibilty taking the avatar of event managers

Everybody trying to look picture perfect and greeting everyone with a smile .
A series which starts almost one year almost in advance by the bride/groom hunting in case of arrrange marriage or in case of love marriage couples are busy dating and getting to know each other more and more , trying to impresss each other's families and once both the parties family gives a thumbs up then starts the round of exchanging horoscopes, calling a pundit ,fixing a date for engagement and then the part girls love and guys do love it this time...that's shopping.... and here starts the countdown for the D-day.

Just one look at the would be brides and the grooms face and you can see their cheeks glowing ,eyes have a rather unusual sparkle , even the most shy and reserved person on earth now has a reason to talk, smile and mingle. It's the best phase in every individuals life.

The speed with which the gold prices are rising am wondering that how does one manage the jewellery shopping.Everything is so costly, getting the invitation cards ready, finding the right venue, appointing the right caterers and selecting a prpoer menu, fixing an appointment for facial and make up, contacting the right dress desiger. After all , it is the most important day of your life and you can take no chances!!! Oh god!!! there's so much. All friends and relatives from every corner of the world are send invites,emails,couriers and then you got a beeline in your house almost a week prior to the marriage.

Whether it's a match made in heaven or on earth, you most importantly find your better half, a partner for life who will share your sorrows and double your joys. You will start to have a family and your soulmate!!!!

To all the married guys and gals ...I wish you all a happy married life

and to all the bachelors I gotta a question..love or arrange...????

Till then keep smiling...you never know whose falling in love with it !

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